BEST PRACTICE
The Alliance's Val Pope explores the importance of engaging dads and male caregivers in children’s early learning
Val is a business manager who specialises in project management, SEND, parenting, family support and domestic abuse
There is plenty of evidence that involving dads and male caregivers in early childhood has a positive impact throughout a person’s life, and early years educators are perfectly placed to involve them in children’s learning and development from the earliest years.
By ‘dads and male caregivers’, we mean biological fathers, stepfathers, adoptive fathers, grandfathers, uncles and other adult males who play a significant role in a child’s life. Regardless of whether they live with their children all the time, evidence suggests that male involvement really does matter.
National Literacy Trust research highlights that dads and
male caregivers’ involvement in talking, playing, reading, singing and other early learning activities supports children’s emotional, cognitive and educational development, including improved early language and literacy. Sharing books and stories can support cognitive development, bonding and attachment, emotional wellbeing, creativity, 'school-readiness' and overall attainment.
The Paternal Involvement and its Effects on Children's Education (PIECE) study in 2023 explored how dads and male caregivers’ involvement in childcare and early education activities, including reading, playing and arts and crafts, affects children’s cognitive development and educational attainment. The study found that dads and male caregivers’ involvement has a unique and important association with children’s educational outcomes, which is different from the effect associated with the involvement of mums and female caregivers.
It found the following:
PIECE therefore recommends supporting dads and male caregivers to participate equally in their children’s early education and learning because of the complementary benefits each parent can bring. Early years settings have an important role in enabling this dual involvement.
The 2021 Parent Voice Report from Parentkind found that 85% of all parents wanted to play an active role in their child’s education. However, barriers included lack of time, uncertainty about what skills or knowledge they could offer, not being asked directly and finding involvement intimidating. This particularly applied to dads and male caregivers.
The 2026 survey carried out by Parentkind found that parents felt less involved in their child’s education than in 2023. Settings can address this by reviewing who receives their communications, how those communications are directed, and consider whether dads and male caregivers feel ‘seen’ and included in activities and events.
The PIECE Study identified an additional barrier for some dads and male caregivers: early years settings and schools may communicate predominantly with only one parent or household. Traditional assumptions about gender roles still often result in mothers being treated as the default or sole point of contact. This can create barriers where children live or spend time across more than one household, or where the family structure does not fit this traditional matricentric picture. It is important to understand each family structure to ensure real inclusion and involvement.
Settings can help dads and male caregivers recognise that everyday interactions are valuable learning opportunities. Educators can model simple activities such as sharing books, talking during daily routines, singing, counting, noticing numbers and shapes around them, and following the child’s interests.
The Education Endowment Foundation identifies practical strategies for learning at home and modelling positive learning interactions as useful approaches to parental engagement. This means engagement does not need to depend on dads and male caregivers having specialist knowledge. Settings can build confidence by showing how ordinary, enjoyable interactions can support learning, directing this information at dads and male caregivers specifically, as well as to parents and carers generally.
The FRED (Fathers Reading Every Day) programme is all about learning to love reading. The initiative, which is included on the government’s current parenting evidence-based initiatives (EBI) list and has been adapted for the UK by the Fatherhood Institute, provides practical ways to kick-start dads and male caregivers’ engagement with both their child’s learning and development and with their early years setting.
Evidence cited for the programme shows that 42% of FRED children demonstrated greater-than-expected progress in reading, compared with 11% of children who did not participate, and 22% demonstrated greater-than-expected progress in numeracy, compared with 9% of non-participants.
FRED also improved father-child relationships, increased fathers’ active involvement in both their child’s learning and early years setting, improved their confidence and competence as parents and their understanding of child development.
For further information, visit: bit.ly/U5-fred.
In partnership with the Fatherhood Institute, the Alliance has developed a new three-module e-learning course Engaging with Dads and Male Caregivers. This training helps educators to look closely at their own practice, challenge assumptions and build approaches that genuinely include dads and male caregivers as active partners in their child’s learning. By doing so, educators can strengthen the reflective practice needed to create truly inclusive settings and support a positive home learning environment.
If you are interested in finding out more about this or registering for this e-learning course please email connect@eyalliance.org.uk.